Mental Health & Well-Being Resources

Please see below for links to valuable resources dedicated to the mental health and well-being of our children.

Books:

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck

Strong: A Runner’s Guide to Boosting Confidence and Becoming the Best Version of  You by Kara Goucher

Let Your Mind Run: A Memoir of Thinking My Way to Victory by Deena Kastor

No More Broken Eggs: A Guide to Optimizing the Sports Experience for Athletes, Coaches, Parents, and Clinicians by Tom Morin

The Cheers and The Tears: A Healthy Alternative to the Dark Side of Youth Sports Today by Shane Murphy, PhD

The Happy Kid Handbook: How to Raise Joyful Children in a Stressful World by Katie Hurley, LCSW

No More Mean Girls: The Secret to Raising Strong, Confident, and Compassionate Girls  by Katie Hurley, LCSW

The Depression Workbook for Teens: Tools to Improve Your Mood, Build Self-Esteem, and Stay Motivated by Katie Hurley, LCSW

A Year of Positive Thinking for Teens: Daily Motivation to Beat Stress, Inspire Happiness, and Achieve Your Goals by Katie Hurley, LCSW

The Stress-Buster Workbook for Kids: 75 Evidence Based Strategies to Help Kids Regulate Their Emotions, Build Coping Skills and Tap into Positive Thinking by Katie Hurley, LCSW

Girls Running: All You Need To Strive, Thrive, and Run Your Best by Melody Fairchild and Elizabeth Carey

Article Links:

For Parents/Players:

https://www.pbs.org/parents/authors/katie-hurley-lcsw

Sports Parents, We Have A Problem: Crying After Sports Is Not Healthy For Child Development

Overzealous Parents Are Ruining Youth Sports. It’s Past Time to Sit Quiet and Let The Kids Play

Keeping Perspective in Youth Sport

Mental health and athletes: U.S. Soccer provides comprehensive resource

The Recognize to Recover Mental Health Resources for Athletes 

Naomi Osaka and How Coaches can Support Their Athletes Mental Health

Is it okay to talk to athletes about mental health and sports? 

Mental Health Support in Sports: For More Thank Just Athletes

Speaking of Mental Health: Put in the Person First, Take Out the Stigma

Resources for Families After Gun Violence:

Coping in the Aftermath of a Shooting

Talking to Students about Violence and Mass Shootings 

Coping Resources in Response to a Mass Violence Event 

Resources for Helping Youth Cope after a Mass Shooting 

Gun violence, grief, and trauma: A resource guide for students, teachers, and parents

Supporting Families: Young Children and Gun Violence

15 Tips for Talking with Children about Violence

How to talk with children about gun violence

Video Links:

How Sports Parents Should Talk to Their Kids

NAYS Parenting Orientation

Organizations:

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255)

U.S. Center Mental Health & Sport

At-Home Mental Health Screening from Mental Health America: https://screening.mhanational.org/screening-tools/

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA)

National Council for Wellbeing

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI)

American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP)

American Psychological Association (APA)

Beyond Sport

The Jed Foundation (JED)

Anxiety & Depression Association of America (ADAA)

Bring Change to Mind (BC2M)

American School Counselor Association  

Dealing With Depression

If at any point you or someone you know experiencing depression needs immediate attention, dial 911.

By Katie Lovallo, MA, Mind Fit Performance (www.mindfitperformance.com)

Depression is a mood disorder that involves a persistent feeling of sadness and loss of interest in activities you once enjoyed. It can lead to a variety of emotional and physical problems that affect one’s ability to function at daily tasks.

Causes of depression may vary, from personality, genetics , biochemistry, environmental factors, or a traumatic life event. Depression symptoms can vary in severity (mild to severe) and may include:

  • Feeling sad or having a depressed mood
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed
  • Changes in appetite — weight loss or gain unrelated to dieting
  • Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much
  • Loss of energy or increased fatigue
  • Increase in purposeless physical activity (e.g., inability to sit still, pacing, handwringing) or slowed movements or speech (these actions must be severe enough to be observable by others)
  • Feeling worthless or guilty
  • Difficulty thinking, concentrating or making decisions
  • Thoughts of death or suicide

Depression is treatable, and most people respond well to treatment. If you or someone you know is experiencing depression, seek the help of a professional, like a counselor (MA, MFT, LCSW), psychiatrist (M.D. or D.O) or psychotherapist (PhD., PsyD, or EdD). You can find a local reference by clicking one of the links below.

Psychology Today

American Psychiatric Association

Psychiatry.org

 

Mental Health Resources:

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
24/7 free, confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources and best practices for professionals.
https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org
1-800-273-8255

National Sexual Assault Hotline
Sexual assault support
https://online.rainn.org
1-800-656-HOPE (4673)

National Eating Disorder Association
Free, confidential helpline and support
http://myneda.org/helpline-chat
1-800-931-2237
24/7 support via text (send NEDA to 741-741)

Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA)
Free, national helpline, 24/7, 365-day-a-year treatment referral and information service (in English and Spanish) for individuals and families facing mental and/or substance use disorders.
https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
24/7 support via text (send to 435748 (HELP4U)) or TTY: 1-800-487-4889

Welcome to Mental Health & Well-Being

AYSO believes in providing a positive, fair, and fun soccer experience for all our players and volunteers.

From striving to create an environment based on mutual respect rather than a win-at-all-costs attitude, to focusing on player enjoyment as well as player development, AYSO believes all kids deserve the opportunity to thrive and grow with the support of their peers and mentors within a healthy, supportive community.

Therefore, in addition to our accredited soccer program, we are pleased to offer supportive resources related to mental health and well-being. Supported by an innovative partnership with industry leader US Center Mental Health in Sport, and information provided by by Mind Fit Performance founder Katie (Mckee) Lovallo, M.A., we encourage you to use this area to find valuable education articles to help reduce stress, eliminate anxiety, improve performance and foster good mental health & well-being practices within your AYSO region and throughout your network of family and friends.